Interview

• What do you do for fun?
  Men.
  Well, I get them to do me for fun.
  And it almost always turns out to be a lot of fun.
• If you have to pick one thing that everyone else should absolutely know about you, what would it be?
  I’d like everyone to know that I’m not as intense as I come across sometimes and I’m actually nice. I really am.
  I’ve had people meet me and say they’re surprised I’m so normal and so nice, because they’ve seen me out in bars or clubs )or online) and thought I’d never be interested in talking to them so haven’t tried.
  But the reason I’m there on my own is because I’ve wanted someone to talk to me and make new friends or find a new lover.
  And I’m funny and sometimes a bit daft, but I’ve got a good heart and love being able to make people smile and feel good.
  So please do say hello, either online or in person because I love to chat and talk to people whether I fancy someone or not - and often I find someone more attractive after talking to them for a bit than I did to start with.
• How often do you travel? Do you prefer to travel or you are more of a homebody?
  It’s surprising how little I travel given how much I like men from places like Spain, Portugal, Greece, Turkey, South Africa, Peru and Colombia.
  I adore Madrid but have only been a few times, so would like to go again soon. I could live in Cape Town again after living there for six months when I was younger.
  And I was surprised at how much like London São Paulo was when I went and I think I could live there too.
  I would like to to go Sydney one day but with long haul destinations I prefer to spend at least a month there, otherwise you’ve only just recovered from the flight and started to discover the place before it’s time to come back. So if I go to Sydney it would have to be for two months at least.
  But when I can afford to go to Sydney for two months is a different matter...
• If you and I were on the beach having some wine and great food, what would you tell me about yourself.
  I would tell you that I’ve had a lot of amazing things happen in my life that were wasted because I was I such a rush to find the next amazing thing to enjoy. I should have taken more time to appreciate what was happening and how lucky I was.
  But I’ve also had some awful things happen too. I’ve realised that awful thing will happen, but situations change and there will be amazing things happening again at some point.
  My mother brought me up to believe this (and it’s got me through some things I might not have survived without it): ‘No matter how terrible things get, even if you’re sleeping in a cardboard box in the rain with nowhere to go, the most important thing you must do is make sure you wake up the next day. Because that day could be the day that everything gets better. And if it’s not then make sure you wake up the next day and then next day, because one of those days will be the day that things do start to get better.’
  And I’m still here and waking up everyday.
• What makes you stand out from the crowd?
  I stand out from the crowd physically because of my colouring, body shape and height, but also because I’m genuinely interested in everybody I meet and am just a good natured person so those qualities shine out of me.
  For me it is more important that someone I’m with can feel confident and valued when we are together, as I love seeing someone enjoy the feeling of their own self worth because of the attitude I have towards bringing that out in people, if they want to have that brought out in them.
  I’m not an attention seeker but I get attention both online and in person. But I’m always more interested in other people and their stories than telling everyone about myself (he says in an interview about himself).
  I’d rather help others get the attention they want or help them have more confidence in themselves but without getting too much attention if that’s what they prefer.
• What are your hobbies? What do you like to do in your spare time?
  I’m a big fan of photography and film making. I enjoy creating great images of myself and other people, using good lighting and angles to craft images and film footage that can make myself and others look as good as possible.
  Now I’ve developed an interest in editing footage to create exciting and interesting promo clips and longer pieces that capture as much of the atmosphere that was in the room, with various aspects considered depending on who is in the clips and what they want to achieve from it all. I’m still learning but it’s exciting to discover new ways of making myself and others look great - I love it when people can’t believe the results, so I know that what I’ve done has worked.
• How do you go that ‘extra mile' in your life?
  I make sure that I always stick to arrangements - if I say I’ll be there then I’ll be there, probably with something to make you smile. I was taught to never arrive empty handed so I still make sure I’ve got something useful or funny to break the ice and make everyone feel relaxed.
  I’m very grateful that I can get on with more or less everyone and can quickly find a way to help people I meet feel comfortable in my presence, so we can enjoy our time together.
  Being able to quickly work out what someone is interested in so we can have an interesting conversation helps every social situation and it makes me happy to see people respond well to that and relax so we can enjoy the experience.
• What should others absolutely know about you?
  I’m a genuinely nice person and enjoy making other people’s lives happier, calmer, more fulfilling and enjoyable.
  I have good manners and I’m well educated, so you can take me anywhere or introduce me to anyone and I’ll reflect positively on you.
  You can relax when you’re with me.
• What do you enjoy most about yourself?
  I really enjoy how much I genuinely get pleasure from making men feel their own sexuality and attractiveness. I can see something attractive in every man, which means I get turned on thinking about how he would fuck me. And to see someone feel sexy and attractive when they don’t consider themselves traditionally good looking, is a very horny thing and I like that they can see it in my eyes while we are together.
  And getting fucked by someone much older or who isn’t traditionally attractive on video is a huge turn on for me because I like knowing they have a copy and can relive the time with me anytime they like and it will make them feel sexy and attractive when they see us together on screen.
  It’s just a great feeling to know I’m not blinded by men who are obviously attractive (wouldn’t say no to them either of course) and can help bring out someone’s sense of sexuality when we are together and also in the run up to meeting again at other times.
  Maybe I’m just the Sex Fairy...
• Name 5 things that you can’t live without.
  I would hate to have to live without many things, but the five top ones are:
  
  The internet and my Chomebook - we have the amazing ability to get endless information easily through the internet. I love spending hours going into music wormholes on YouTube, finding out random information on something, keeping in touch with people, editing videos and photos of myself and connecting with other men for sex in a way I’d find much harder without the internet.
  
  My body and beard trimmer. Keeping my body hair trimmed and need is important to me and I feel more confident knowing I look neat.
  
  The plastic enema shower hose attachment that fits into a pocket and gives me the confidence I need when I’m at someone’s house for some fun.
  
  Viagra because while getting hard is rarely a problem, it makes me feel sexy to be hard from the start. People think it’s not something bottoms worry about but it just gives me more confidence and I want to make sure the top knows I do fancy him while he’s fucking me.
  
  My ginger colouring. I hated the colour of my hair and skin when I was younger, but then I realised how many men find it a huge turn on. So now I can see that it makes me feel sexy to be ginger.